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Secrets of the KSW master - how to become a perfect fighter? Borys Mańkowski.
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Secrets of the KSW master - how to become a perfect fighter? Borys Mańkowski.

Cyprian Majcher
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TL;DR

The four things you'd lose by not watching

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TL;DR

The four things you'd lose by not watching

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Borys Mańkowski, a KSW champion, emphasizes that elite fighters must embrace 'tunnel vision' — a single-minded focus that requires sacrificing normal life, including family time, and a degree of craziness.

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He now avoids reading any online comments entirely, after realizing that both positive and negative ones can subconsciously affect his mental state and create dependency.

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Having accepted that his body can no longer sustain a UFC-level career, Mańkowski is planning a few final money fights before retiring to pursue other passions like travel and writing, while his self-published book 'Stań się fighterem' offers a detailed manual for fighters and those seeking a warrior mindset.

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His own overtraining in youth taught him that quality (e.g., 4-minute Tabata) trumps sheer volume; he now advocates for smart training and active mental resets like family bike rides to avoid burnout.

Protocols

Concrete recipes — what, when, how much, and why

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Mental reset through active, low-intensity diversion (e.g., family bike ride)

WhatPeriodically escape the 'tunnel' of training focus by engaging in a completely unrelated, enjoyable activity like a bike ride with family, to allow the nervous system to relax.
WhenOn a designated rest day (e.g., Sunday) or after heavy training cycles.
DoseA single outing of several hours, enough to fully detach mentally.
For whomFighters who struggle to switch off mentally and find passive rest still mentally taxing.
WhyConstant mental focus on training, even during passive rest, keeps the nervous system tense and can lead to burnout. Physically moving without performance pressure resets the mind.
CaveatsThis is Mańkowski's personal counterpoint to the extreme complete-rest approach; some fighters (like Gamrot) prefer total bed rest and still thrive. Each athlete must find which method truly recharges them.

Mańkowski contrasts himself with his former neighbor and UFC fighter Mateusz Gamrot, who spent entire Sundays lying in bed to conserve every ounce of energy for the training week. Mańkowski, by contrast, felt that if he lay still he would still be mentally 'spięty' (wound up) thinking about the next session. His solution was to go for bike rides with his wife and kids, to the lake, completely removing himself from the fight environment. He stresses that this was not a compromise of his dedication but a necessary mental 'vent' that allowed his head and nervous system to loosen up. He sees this as one of the trade-offs of a more balanced life; Gamrot's extreme focus may yield superior pure performance, but Mańkowski needed the occasional escape to sustain his career longevity without going insane.

Mechanism

Mańkowski describes that even when lying down, he would still be tense thinking about Monday's training; engaging in a different, pleasurable physical activity like cycling with his family distracted his brain just enough to let the autonomic nervous system shift into a more relaxed state, which he felt was necessary for true recovery.

Personal experience

He shares a typical Sunday: 'I'm like, finally the day when I can do something… I take the bikes, I go, I take the family, we go somewhere to the lake' while Gamrot would say 'me, nothing, I'm lying in the room saving energy'.

because then your head, your nervous system relaxes

Also said
“whenever I had some kind of distraction to the side… no, tunnel and that always saved me”— Shows he viewed such diversions as a safety valve within the tunnel, not a break from it.

Total rest Sunday (extreme energy conservation)

WhatSpend the entire off day (Sunday) lying in bed or on the couch, avoiding any physical or mental exertion, to maximize recovery for the following training week.
WhenOne full day per week, specifically the day before the training week begins.
DoseFull day, from waking to sleep.
For whomHighly dedicated fighters without family obligations or those willing to sacrifice all leisure time, modeled by Mateusz Gamrot.
WhyTo ensure the body and mind are completely fresh for Monday's training, preserving every bit of energy for performance.
CaveatsMańkowski does not practice this himself and notes that it may be mentally unsustainable for those who cannot switch off their racing thoughts. It requires a certain personality to lie still and genuinely rest rather than dwell on upcoming training.

Mańkowski describes Gamrot's routine as an example of extreme tunnel vision: every Sunday, Gamrot would stay in bed all day, explicitly telling Mańkowski that he was conserving energy so that he could train at maximum intensity on Monday. This level of dedication, where even a bike ride is seen as a waste, is what Mańkowski believes separates the very top from the rest. However, he acknowledges that such a protocol is only possible for someone whose brain can truly switch off during that rest; otherwise, the tension remains and the day becomes counterproductive. He presents it not as a directive but as a data point on the spectrum of fighter discipline.

he lay in bed all Sunday and rested, he even wanted to be so deliberately bored that he could do a good workout on Monday

Quality-over-volume training (avoid ‘dewastacja’)

WhatReplace long, moderate-intensity sessions with short, extremely high-intensity intervals (e.g., 4-minute Tabata) and reduce daily sessions to a smart, periodized schedule, avoiding the 3-a-day plus extra strength work he did in his youth.
WhenThroughout training camp, with a focus on intelligent load management.
DoseExample: instead of 1.5 hours of steady-state work, do 4 minutes of Tabata (20s on, 10s off) to complete exhaustion. Total daily sessions: 1–2 max, well-spaced.
For whomAll fighters, especially young ones who equate more work with more results.
WhyMassive volume leads to systemic breakdown without proportional gains; intensity drives adaptation, and excessive training impairs recovery.
CaveatsMańkowski admits he learned this the hard way; his youthful 'warrior' mentality of adding extra sessions was counterproductive.

He describes his early schedule: 7:30 AM boxing, 11:30 AM MMA/wrestling, 6:00 PM third session, plus he would often add 1.5 hours of strength work before wrestling. He now calls this 'dewastacja' (devastation) and admits it had no sense. He stresses that smart training means applying the hardest stimulus in the right dose and then allowing full recovery. He quotes Marcin Lewandowski saying that Kenyans said 'work hard', Europeans said 'work smart', and Lewandowski says 'work hard smart', which Mańkowski endorses.

Mechanism

He points out that a 4-minute Tabata can leave an athlete completely wrecked and vomiting, much more so than 1.5 hours of jogging. The key metrics are neural and metabolic stress, not clock time. Overloading with multiple daily sessions prevents proper supercompensation.

Personal experience

He recounts that he and Gamrot would do these triple sessions together and it was 'zajazd taki że no koniec' (such a grind that it was over). Now he sees that even a 20-minute Air assault bike interval could be more effective.

if hard work were the measure of success, then people in mines and quarries would be billionaires

Also said
“my training 4 minutes and yours an hour and a half but you are able to wreck yourself more”— Reinforces the counterintuitive time-vs-intensity point.

What's new

Personal practice updates, fresh positions, predictions

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Shift from chasing UFC to final career phase and life beyond fighting

Mańkowski has stopped lying to himself about reaching the UFC, acknowledging his body's wear at age 34–35 and the lack of business logic for the organization to invest in him. He is now focused on a few remaining high-profile, high-paying fights before retiring to pursue personal dreams like climbing Kilimanjaro, building a house, and traveling.

Why this matters: This is a rare public admission from an active fighter that he has mentally exited the rat race while still competing, and a clear pivot toward life after sport.

Background

Mańkowski's entire identity was built around MMA since age 14, rising to KSW champion. For years, the UFC was the ultimate unfulfilled goal, and he once would have fought there for free. However, after watching his friend Mateusz Gamrot succeed there while he himself could not, he reassessed.

Mańkowski explains that he used to believe he could still get a UFC shot, but now sees it as logistically impossible: the UFC would not sign a 35-year-old with no long-term promotional upside. He admits that even if he won every remaining fight, it wouldn't change the reality. Instead, he has shifted to a pragmatic plan: take loud, lucrative fights that give him financial security, then walk away. He contrasts this with fighters who keep chasing an illusion and then face a hard crash. His contentment, however, is genuine because he has already experienced almost every layer of MMA — from small-time amateur shows to a stadium event for KSW — and even witnessed Gamrot's UFC journey as a cornerman, which gave him a surrogate sense of fulfillment. The book he wrote is part of this new chapter, channeling his experience into a legacy product, and he now speaks of future adventures like climbing Kilimanjaro and visiting remote African villages.

Personal experience

He vividly describes the moment after his fight with Mamed Khalidov at the National Stadium: his partner was about to give birth, so he couldn't stay and celebrate, driving home in a beat-up car with a friend while people at gas stations recognized him. That night symbolized the end of his peak. Now, spending his first two nights in his newly built house with a garden — the only material dream he ever had — gave him a deep sense of peace.

I stopped lying to myself… I know perfectly well that I won't do anything more, there's no chance of getting into the UFC at all… why would they take a 35-year-old guy, it makes no sense

Also said
“I'll really put on my slippers and say to myself screw it, I'm satisfied, I can end it all”— Emphasizes that even without UFC gold, he feels fully satisfied with his career.
“I would like to create my own list of things… I'll climb, for example, Kilimanjaro… visit some village where people don't often go”— Shows the concrete post-career goals that keep him motivated through the final fights.

Total rejection of reading online comments for mental hygiene

Mańkowski used to read comments but realized that even subconscious exposure to negativity (waking up at night with insult phrases) was damaging. He now avoids all comment sections entirely, treating them as a net negative.

Why this matters: Many public figures pay lip service to avoiding negativity but continue reading; Mańkowski's rationale goes deeper, explaining the insidious subconscious effect and the illusion of control.

Background

He previously believed he didn't care about hate comments. Over time, he noticed that negative phrases would pop into his head at random moments — like a song he dislikes getting stuck in his mind — proving that he wasn't in control.

Mańkowski argues that anyone who claims they are immune to online comments is lying, because content you consume enters your subconscious regardless of your conscious dismissal. He compares it to an unpleasant song that plays on the radio and later you find yourself humming it. He realized that even positive comments can create dependency and shape your self-worth, so the only safe strategy is to cut off exposure entirely. He specifically praises the host for having to read comments to improve a podcast, but notes that for his own mental recovery as a fighter, abstaining is non-negotiable. He frames this as a deliberate protective measure, not ignorance.

Personal experience

He recounts that after initially ignoring comments, he would sometimes wake in the middle of the night to use the toilet and a harsh phrase like 'Borys you dick' would echo in his head. That was the turning point that made him quit cold turkey.

I used to read and then I realized... suddenly you go to take a leak in the toilet and suddenly Borys you [__] and what is it… that's, you know, the subconscious… If someone says they have control over that, they're talking bullshit

Also said
“I decided that it neither builds me up nor means anything… if anything, it can weaken me. So I don't do it at all, I don't waste time on it”— Confirms his absolute zero-tolerance policy toward comment consumption.

Recommendations

Products, supplements, and tools mentioned in the episode

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Rafał Mazur (Zen Jaskiniowca) mental coaching content

Service

A Polish mental coach known for blunt, provocative delivery that focuses on the extreme mindsets of elite performers. Mańkowski used his videos and programs to create affirmations.

Mańkowski discovered Mazur years ago and later had him on his own podcast. He values the no-bullshit approach that directly tackles fear, ego, and the uncomfortable truth that top performers are often abnormal and selfish. He specifically mentions buying Mazur's psychological programs and using his commentary to shape his own mindset. The core message resonates with Mańkowski's own philosophy: 'przestań być pizdą' (stop being a wimp) and focus on work. While acknowledging the material can be controversial, Mańkowski finds it effective because it cuts through motivational fluff.

vs alternatives

Compared to other mental coaches who offer gentle, holistic advice, Mazur's style is confrontational and polarizing, which Mańkowski found more honest.

Personal experience

He says 'I even had a podcast with him… I was able to make affirmations for myself before sleep from some of his statements'.

what I like the most is just grinding on about all of this and focus on the work, in short How to stop being a pussy in life

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Having a fully supportive life partner who accepts the fighter’s tunnel lifestyle

Practice

Mańkowski emphasizes that without a partner who understands and supports the selfish demands of a fighting career, success is nearly impossible.

He explains that the fighter's lifestyle — two-a-day sessions, exhaustion, extended camps away, and lack of energy for family — places an enormous burden on the partner, who often handles child-rearing and emotional labor alone. He states that if his partner were to complain about lack of time and energy, the fighter would be fighting on two fronts, which is unsustainable. Danusia, his wife, not only accepted this but actively supports it, even packing his book orders. He stresses that this isn't just about patience; it's a critical, non-negotiable component of the fighter's system.

Personal experience

He says 'my Danusia… she totally accepted that it is what it is' and that he never had problems at home because of this alignment.

if you have a woman who says you have no time for me, you have no energy for me… well, not only are you fighting with yourself, but you also have this additional aspect and that's nothing good

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Disclosed sponsorships1speaker disclosed

Stań się fighterem (Become a Fighter)

Book Sponsored · disclosed

Mańkowski wrote the book to compile all the lessons from his career, from weight cutting and training to mindset and dealing with setbacks. It includes chapters on both sport-specific advice and universal life philosophy.

DisclosureSelf-published by the guest Borys Mańkowski; sales directly benefit him.

The book was born from the many questions Mańkowski received about how to handle struggles, stay motivated, and build a fighter's mentality. He initially listed all the topics he would need to cover and realized it was enough for a full book. It is self-published ('self-publishing'), with his wife Danusia handling packing and shipping from home. He insists it is not a mere autobiography but a manual: it includes exhaustive sections on weight cutting (he notes 30–40 pages alone), mental strength, and the importance of a supportive partner. He sees it as his way to give back and to establish a legacy beyond fighting. He was not a natural writer (he jokes that his Polish teachers would be shocked), but he proved it could be done.

vs alternatives

Unlike typical ghostwritten fighter memoirs, this is directly written by the athlete with a raw, instructional tone.

this is my book and I would never have expected it in my life… the teachers would never have expected that I would write a book

Also said
“how to make weight… I don't remember, 30, 40 pages on the topic of how to go about it at all”— Demonstrates the practical depth of the content.
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Notable quotes

Lines worth pulling out — contrarian, specific, or perfectly phrased

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If you want to be very good in sports, you have to be in the tunnel, you have to focus only on that and stay in it.
Succinctly captures the central philosophy of extreme athletic focus that runs through the entire conversation.
in my opinion, you can't be totally normal if you want to do this… but who said that being normal is something cool?
Challenges the cultural pressure to be well-rounded, flipping the script on what 'normal' means.
if hard work were the measure of success, then people in mines and quarries would be billionaires
A powerful rebuttal to the 'just work harder' myth, emphasizing smart application of effort.
I'm an emotional person generally and I really feel like crying… the guy looks at me and says 'thanks to you I started training at all and now I've been training for 10 years'
Reveals the deep emotional payoff of being a public figure and mentor, and how it fuels his continued motivation.
after that fight with Mamed… I walk out and there were those people who watched that fight… Borys Mańkowski after the fight of the night
A cinematic, personal snapshot of a peak career moment and the surreal recognition that followed.

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Topics covered

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