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One child dies there and it's loud, here thousands die and it's okay - Mamed Khalidov
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One child dies there and it's loud, here thousands die and it's okay - Mamed Khalidov

Cyprian Majcher
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TL;DR

The four things you'd lose by not watching

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TL;DR

The four things you'd lose by not watching

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Mamed Khalidov, a 45-year-old MMA legend, reveals that his only career regret is knocking out his friend Michał Materla, a victory that felt 'disgusting' and taught him that some things are more important than money or pressure.

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He turned down a significantly higher-paying UFC offer to avoid harming KSW, the Polish organization he helped build, after his friend and co-owner Maciej Kawulski admitted it could 'kill KSW' — yet Khalidov insists it was his own choice, not a trap of loyalty.

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Khalidov speaks bluntly about the war in Gaza, calling it genocide and criticizing Western double standards: 'When one child dies there, it's very loud; here thousands of children die and it's okay.'

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His biggest personal dream is to perform the Hajj pilgrimage to Mecca this year, the last of the five pillars of Islam he has yet to fulfill, which he considers more important than any sporting achievement.

Protocols

Concrete recipes — what, when, how much, and why

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Parenting with religion and character as foundation

WhatRaise children first on religious principles, then cultural traditions aligned with Islam, emphasizing truthfulness, modesty, and dignity.
WhenThroughout childhood; daily modeling of behavior.
DoseOngoing upbringing.
For whomHis two sons, but presented as a general principle for Muslim fathers.
WhyTo build a strong moral compass so they don't lose their name or identity, and to become good representatives of their faith.
CaveatsHe admits he is softer than his own father was, reflecting a generational evolution in parenting.

Khalidov describes his parenting as rooted in Islam, which he calls the main foundation. He teaches his sons what is allowed and what is not, what is good and what is unfitting for a man. Key virtues are truthfulness, not lying, modesty, and dignity. He contrasts this with the stereotype of harsh, unemotional upbringing, saying it's not about being tough but about conversation and showing the right path. He acknowledges he is more gentle than his father, seeing this as an improvement across generations.

Personal experience

He says he is satisfied with how his sons are turning out, and that he sometimes sees himself copying his father's patterns but in a softer way.

The main element is truthfulness, modesty.

Also said
“It's not like you build yourself on foundations that are important later in life, so you don't lose your name, your self.”— Explains the long-term goal of character building.

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Products, supplements, and tools mentioned in the episode

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Healthy lifestyle for athletic longevity

Practice

Khalidov attributes his ability to compete at 45 to clean living: quality sleep, healthy diet, and no alcohol.

He presents this as a simple, universal formula that has kept him fast and creative in training. He contrasts it with the old-school approach of just working hard without recovery, noting that modern fighters benefit from better regeneration knowledge, but his personal edge comes from these basics. He also emphasizes fighting intelligently to avoid accumulating damage, which has left him with few injuries and only one knockout loss.

vs alternatives

Compared to fighters who party or neglect recovery, he has extended his prime significantly.

Personal experience

He says he feels physically and mentally very good, having overcome a bad period, and that his speed and creativity are still there.

Healthy sleep, healthy eating, don't drink alcohol, you know, healthy living.

Also said
“I don't have a broken head, I haven't received anything except one knockout in my life.”— Evidence of the practice's effectiveness.
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Notable quotes

Lines worth pulling out — contrarian, specific, or perfectly phrased

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One child dies there, it's very loud. Here thousands of children die, it's okay.
A stark, memorable indictment of Western double standards in conflict coverage, delivered with raw emotion.
I have never had such a disgusting feeling after a winning fight.
Rare admission from a fighter that winning felt disgusting, revealing deep emotional conflict.
If someone doesn't notice that I am slower and something is wrong, and just gives me the signal right away, I immediately stop doing it.
A concrete, self-aware exit strategy that many aging athletes lack.

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Topics covered

public-image-vs-private-selfchechen-war-experienceisrael-gaza-conflictdouble-standards-in-warislam-misconceptionsreligious-representationparenting-and-faithwarrior-upbringingfather-son-influencemma-career-regretsfriendship-in-fightingufc-offer-rejectionloyalty-to-kswaging-in-combat-sportslongevity-protocolshajj-pilgrimage-dreammigration-and-islamophobiapolish-identity-and-chechen-roots
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