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Why is North Korea a country inside the hell? or maybe a Warrior's journey no censor
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Why is North Korea a country inside the hell? or maybe a Warrior's journey no censor

Cyprian Majcher
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TL;DR

The four things you'd lose by not watching

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TL;DR

The four things you'd lose by not watching

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Piotr Pająk visited North Korea as part of one of the few groups able to enter before the country locked down again; he compares the whole experience to The Truman Show -- everything was staged, and tourists had no contact with the real lives of the residents.

2

While climbing Island Peak (6165 meters), he discovered that the descent is harder than the ascent -- extreme fatigue and altitude sickness forced him to give up the planned attack on Ama Dablam, and now he is preparing for Aconcagua (almost 7000 m) as the next step before Mount Everest.

3

The traveler reveals how the media creates a false image of conflicts -- 40,000 people died in Palestine in one year, and 13,000 in Ukraine over three years, yet TV airtime proportions are reversed; he also describes the shocking contrast between clean Israel and the neglected West Bank with its five-meter wall.

4

Pająk openly talks about his goals: reach one million subscribers by year's end, visit all 195 UN countries, and then start a family -- he plans a child in two years once he finishes the list, while simultaneously developing his real estate agency in Thailand and tourist camps.

Protocols

Concrete recipes — what, when, how much, and why

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Staying calm when a gun is drawn on you in the favelas

WhatWhen an armed gangster tells you to stop recording or threatens you, do not panic, do not run -- react calmly and follow his order, showing that you are not a threat.
WhenIn a dangerous neighborhood, when you are confronted by an armed person.
For whomTravelers visiting dangerous districts (e.g., favelas in Brazil); not recommended as a permanent strategy -- Pająk notes that this is his personal experience.
WhyPanic or running away can provoke shooting; staying composed shows you are not an enemy, and the perpetrator likely does not want to shoot a tourist right away, only to intimidate.
CaveatsIt does not guarantee safety; in some situations running may be better, but it requires quick risk assessment.

Pająk recounts that a gun was drawn on him twice in Brazilian favelas. The second time, after already having visited Afghanistan and Yemen, the sight of a pistol was "normal" to him -- he even thought that everyone there carries a gun. Still, he reacted calmly, put down the camera and complied. He compares it to behavior around an aggressive dog: nervous movements can trigger an attack, while staying calm offers a chance to escape unharmed. In his opinion, tourists often panic, which leads to escalation.

Mechanism

Neurobiologically, panic shuts down rational thinking and can cause sudden movements that, in the context of a firearm, are perceived as aggression. Staying calm allows further control of the situation and de-escalation.

Personal experience

"When he pulled out that pistol? For me it was normal. So the church has a door handle. So what? Normal? But there, everyone -- everyone has a door handle. (...) For a normal person it could be, it could be a shock."

"Panicking and suddenly running away is worse, because you do not know what he will do then, since you are acting weird, than simply telling him, 'okay chill, relax, you know, nothing happened.'"

Also said
“"If someone draws a gun on you, scares you, he is not going to kill you right away."”— He cites the rule that brandishing a weapon rarely ends with an immediate shot.

Do not give money to begging children -- instead, buy food or support institutions

WhatWhen you meet a child asking for money, refuse to hand over cash; offer to buy a meal or support a fundraiser for a community center or an orphanage in that village.
WhenWhile traveling in poor regions, especially in Africa, Southeast Asia, or Zanzibar.
For whomAny tourist exposed to poverty; particularly important in tourist spots where children are trained to extract money from white people.
WhyGiving money directly fuels organized begging by adults (often the child hands the money over to a "boss"); it also ruins any chance of attending school, because the family prefers the child to earn money through begging.
CaveatsYou need to be able to recognize when a child is truly starving and has no other support -- you can help such children, but by purchasing food, not with cash donations.

Pająk repeatedly encountered situations where children begged for someone else, and in Zanzibar he saw villages where "white people" periodically arrive and throw money around, making the locals dependent on that kind of help. He believes that institutional help (e.g., building a community center or an orphanage) is more lasting and does not corrupt social mechanisms. In Poland, he also meets adult beggars -- he is sometimes surprised that they can refuse purchased food because they want money for alcohol. The key is sensitivity: in Ethiopia or Syria, where he sees extreme malnutrition, he helps directly, but wisely.

Personal experience

"I never give money to begging kids. I always say I can buy them something to eat or something, but I do not give money to such children because often in some countries these kids just work for someone and beg for someone else."

"For example, I never give money to begging kids. I always say I can buy them something to eat or something, but I do not give them money because often in some countries these children simply work for someone and beg for someone else."

Also said
“"Such a child will never go to school, because it will be bringing in money, so it does not need to go to school, because it earns for the whole family."”— He points out the long-term negative impact of begging on education.

Gradual acclimatization before climbing 6000-meter peaks and higher

WhatInstead of immediately aiming for Mount Everest or eight-thousanders, start with lower peaks (e.g., Island Peak 6165 m), then climb a 7000-m peak (Aconcagua 6960 m), and only then plan for higher ones; precede each outing with a few weeks' stay at altitude including mandatory acclimatization ascents and descents.
WhenWhen planning a high-mountain expedition -- ideally a year in advance, to prepare the body through prior climbs.
DoseThe ascent of Island Peak took 10 hours of a summit push from the camp at 5800 m, the descent a similarly long time; overall he spent 10 days on the expedition, but above 5000 m the body does not regenerate, so he needed 10 hours of sleep per day.
For whomAmateurs and internet creators who want to storm high mountains without prior preparation -- Pająk warns that Everest is not for everyone, and the sight of tourists serving as "road signs" is tragic.
WhyAltitude sickness, muscle hypoxia, and psychological exhaustion are deadly; gradually increasing altitude allows the body to adapt to hypoxia and gives experience in moving with ropes, crampons, and on glaciers.
CaveatsRegardless of preparation, the mountains may refuse -- weather windows, viruses, or subjective feeling (as with Ama Dablam) can make a summit impossible; you should never push at all costs.

Pająk describes in detail his expedition to Island Peak: after two weeks of trekking to the base, he acclimatized by descending and returning to 5000 m. During the summit push, above 6000 m he felt his muscles had no strength -- he had to take 5 steps and 20 breaths, sometimes kneeling. After reaching the summit, the euphoria was enormous, but the descent proved even more difficult -- he walked like a "ghost" and fell asleep without undressing in the tent. In planning Aconcagua, he aims for a long stay and gradual ascents.

Mechanism

At altitudes above 5500 m, partial oxygen pressure drops rapidly, forcing the body to produce erythropoietin and increase ventilation; this process takes weeks, so acclimatization is necessary. Rapidly gaining altitude risks lung or brain edema.

Personal experience

"I simply do not like to jump straight in. I would rather go slowly, wisely, than later spend, say, 100,000 dollars and not make it. I prefer to learn, you know, learn this here, get roped up a bit there, go higher and higher here, and know that my body and, above all, my head are ready."

"In my opinion, to conquer such versions you also need to be a tough guy. Well, you definitely need to be -- if someone says it is for every tourist, that is not true."

Also said
“"Even though I slept 10 hours, I woke up in the morning and, for example, the watch showed 15 or 20, but after breakfast I already had five -- that is, completely drained of strength."”— A concrete example of the lack of regeneration at around 5400 m, crucial for planning effort.

Avoiding political topics while traveling in Russia

WhatIn Russia (neither on the street nor in contact with strangers) do not bring up the topics of war, Putin, or international politics -- limit yourself to tourist praise and ordinary conversations.
WhenThroughout your stay in Russia, especially in smaller towns and on public transport.
For whomTravelers from Poland and other countries perceived as hostile, especially those filming vlogs.
WhyBringing up sensitive topics can put you at risk of being reported, and in the worst case, of trouble with the police; Pająk uses this to avoid the risk of longer detention, although he notes that being thrown in prison just for a conversation is not that common.
CaveatsDoes not apply when you are certain you are speaking to a trusted person -- but you never know who may be listening.

Pająk emphasizes that when he went to Russia, he set his mind exclusively on travel content -- he visited St. Petersburg and Siberia, and rode the Trans-Siberian Railway. He consciously avoided politics because earlier fellow travelers warned him it is better to stick to neutral topics. He himself experienced no hostility -- quite the opposite: people were very kind, and Russian hospitality surprised him. Still, he stuck to the rule, which allowed him to film freely and avoid unnecessary problems.

Personal experience

"Before I went there, I knew right away that I could not touch those topics, because that topic could end in a problem for me. (...) I am going to see how it is, to visit typically beautiful places and without bringing up bad topics, such as those for which I could, I do not know, end up staying there longer, or cause myself trouble."

"I traveled there with the mindset that I knew it would be fine. I did not go there with a bad attitude toward them, because I do not have a TV, I do not live in Poland, so, you know, I do not have a bad attitude."

Also said
“"People wrote to me: 'Oh, a Russian agent, how much did Putin pay you to improve his image' -- but when you go to the United States, everyone goes: 'wow, beautiful America.'"”— Illustrates double standards in judging travelers who visit controversial countries.

What's new

Personal practice updates, fresh positions, predictions

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Change of attitude toward Africa -- from fear to love

druga połowa wywiadu

Despite initial prejudice stemming from stories about constant scams, after intense traveling around Africa, Pająk states that he fell in love with it -- each country is different, people are kind, and the beauty of nature (safari, Kilimanjaro) outweighed the negative stereotypes.

Why this matters: It contradicts the common belief among travelers that Africa is only dangerous; it also shows that a positive attitude and respect can neutralize the risk of being scammed.

Background

Earlier, Pająk had heard mainly about the "damn tough" Africa where everyone wants to cheat a tourist. He admits that until he started going there, he had a negative impression, reinforced by the media and other travelers' stories.

Pająk emphasizes that the key is an open mind and not letting yourself be fooled -- if someone looks for trouble, they will find it, but in most cases, being assertive is enough. His own experiences with Kilimanjaro, safaris, and hikes across various countries convinced him that Africa is an incredibly diverse continent where you can find both hospitality and harsh realities. He also notes that his physical build (strong frame) sometimes helps in negotiations, but he emphasizes that communication style matters most. Despite his enthusiasm, he does not hide his shock at rituals such as female circumcision or the flogging of women in Ethiopia -- he considers them cruel but accepts they are deeply rooted in the culture and cannot be changed as a tourist.

Personal experience

"Once I started traveling around that Africa, I simply fell in love with it, because each country is different. There are really great, beautiful countries, you know, safari, some mountains, I even climbed Kilimanjaro. (...) the people are also kind, you know, if you approach them well, they are also kind."

"I always had a bad attitude toward Africa, for example, because of how my buddies described it, that damn, Africa is always tough, they always want to cheat you, and so on. Until I started traveling around that Africa. Once I started traveling around that Africa, I simply fell in love with it."

Also said
“"I also have it much easier because of my appearance. You know, if I raise my voice a little or say that I will not let myself be cheated, then they already talk to me differently."”— Points to the physical aspect of safety that helps him while traveling.
“"Despite such things happening, it did not repel me so much that I was not curious to go there and see, for example, what such a village looks like."”— Highlights a traveler's curiosity that does not exclude a critical look at local traditions.

Maturing into fatherhood -- a shift in priorities

połowa wywiadu

Pająk, previously focused on travel and YouTube, admits that because of watching his brother with a six-year-old daughter and his fiancée's support, he has started thinking about starting a family, but only after achieving his main goals (visiting all countries and reaching one million subscribers) in about two years.

Why this matters: He departs from the stereotype of an eternal wanderer; he shows that even extreme travelers can crave stability, and his partner actively supports his mission, which is crucial for further expeditions.

Background

Earlier, Pająk was single and often changed partners while traveling; for a year he has been in a steady relationship that -- as he says -- is much better than random romances. When asked about possible boredom and chasing goals, he replies that he already has a clear path: first professional success, then family.

The decision to postpone parenthood is well thought out: Pająk is afraid that if he became a father now, he would not finish his project and would be unhappy, which would affect the relationship. His partner understands this and does not block his trips -- in fact, she says, "Come home." The couple plans to settle permanently in Thailand, where he runs a business, and raise a child together with a dog. Pająk emphasizes that his current travels (9 months away from home per year, including 6-week solo trips) are acceptable only because he has a clear deadline for this stage of life.

Personal experience

"Recently I really feel that I would like to have a child soon, you know? I think I'm starting to mature to that, but on the other hand I feel I still need those two years, because I want to fulfill myself."

"After these two years, once I achieve those two goals, of course I will continue because I want to do the Seven Summits, I want to conquer the two poles, (...) but apart from YouTube I have other projects, other businesses from which I earn money."

Also said
“"For example, I met such a girl, a great woman who does not tell me 'don't go there,' but says: 'Take care of yourself, do your thing, and come home.'"”— Shows what kind of relationship dynamics allow such an intense lifestyle.

Openly admitting the commercial nature of the channel

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Pająk does not pretend to be modest -- he plainly says he earns a lot of money on YouTube, wants a million subscribers, and does not intend to ask viewers for support via Patronite, which some may perceive as arrogance, but he considers it honesty.

Why this matters: In the Polish travel scene, such open talk about money and ambitions is rare; Pająk contrasts with creators who emphasize humility and independence from money while in reality benefiting from donations.

Pająk deliberately avoids collecting money from viewers because he believes that once you have achieved financial stability, it would be dishonest. Instead, he focuses on cooperation with big companies and his own businesses (real estate agency, camps in Thailand). He admits he faces criticism as "the most commercial traveler," but responds: "in a year I'll buy another flat -- I can be commercial." In his opinion, hiding ambitions is worse than openly pursuing a goal.

"People tell me I'm the most commercial traveler on the web and so on. Fine, but I earn good money, you know. At least I don't say that I don't have any, you know, I don't need any Patronite."

Also said
“"I don't want to be focused solely on YouTube; I also want to do other types of projects that will still give me a peaceful life."”— Shows that YouTube is just one pillar of his financial strategy.

Loss of neutrality during the visit to North Korea

pierwsza połowa

Despite his resolve not to be guided by media reports and to draw his own conclusions, after just a few hours Pająk concluded that the whole tour was fake, and his videos inevitably became an exposure of propaganda, for which he expects a lifetime ban on entry.

Why this matters: A rare example of a traveler's internal conflict: he wanted to be objective, but the circumstances made it impossible -- it shows that in such a closed regime, every account is necessarily political.

Pająk describes the trip in detail: from the moment they crossed the border, an agent accompanied them, they could not stray, every exit from the hotel was controlled, and two women with 1990s-style video cameras filmed them all the time allegedly as a souvenir. Despite his initial desire to keep an open mind, the sight of empty streets that suddenly filled with people, fully stocked pharmacies, and flower shops with artificial flowers made it impossible for him to stay silent. Now he believes that the embassy in Poland reviewed his videos and he got banned, although he does not plan to return anyway.

Personal experience

"On the first day when I arrived there, I decided I wanted to sort of ignore what the media say. I wanted to enter with an open mind, a traveler's mind, and draw my own conclusions about what is happening there. But after a few hours (...) I realized, no, this is simply the Truman show."

"It's simply the Truman show. Everything there is set up, we are literally like actors in a movie, and everything around is being filmed."

Also said
“"I think I definitely have a ban on entering North Korea, that they will never let me in again. (...) All it takes is the embassy in Poland."”— Reveals the real risk of retaliation for publishing uncensored material.

Recommendations

Products, supplements, and tools mentioned in the episode

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Sightseeing St. Petersburg as a tourist destination

Practice

Pająk strongly recommends St. Petersburg -- he compares it to a mix of Rome, Holland (canals), Berlin, and London, and highlights beautiful architecture, Orthodox churches, and a pleasant atmosphere.

He describes the city as very European, a contrast to the rest of Russia; he notes that only there did he see crowds of tourists with phones, while in Siberia he saw very few. He raves about local cuisine and cafeterias where, at the checkout, there were four types of flavored vodka with shot glasses, which would be unthinkable in Poland. In his opinion, St. Petersburg is a must-see for any traveler.

Personal experience

"St. Petersburg is an absolutely incredible city. I highly recommend it. It's already a very European city."

"I saw a bit of Rome there, a bit of Holland, because there were a lot of canals. A bit of Berlin, a bit of London, it's all these main European capitals mixed together."

Also said
“"The food was delicious (...). You enter an ordinary cafeteria, where you take food by weight, and there at the counter four different bottles of flavored vodka, you come up for a 50-shot, glug, and only then for a meal."”— Shows a daily culinary surprise for a potential visitor.
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Pająk describes his real estate business in Thailand, saying people want to invest there; the agency is growing, and soon an advertising campaign in Poland will appear.

DisclosureBusiness owner -- he talks about it as his own business; advertises expansion plans (banners in Warsaw, page in Forbes).

Pająk treats the agency as income diversification -- he does not want to depend solely on YouTube. In Thailand he sells real estate to foreigners, mainly investors, and as he claims, they operate legally with registered companies, which sets them apart from many dishonest agents. They plan a big campaign in Poland with five banners in Warsaw and a presence in Forbes. This is part of his plan for a 'peaceful life' after completing his travel goals.

Personal experience

"We sell real estate in Thailand and, you know, it's really growing nicely, because for example, regarding the real estate business, it's really great because people want to invest there in Thailand."

"Soon you will be able to see in Warsaw five huge banners with our agency. We will even have our page in Forbes, so it's really going great."

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Notable quotes

Lines worth pulling out — contrarian, specific, or perfectly phrased

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"It is simply the Truman show. Everything there is set up, we are literally like actors in a movie."
A blunt comparison of North Korea to a film where tourists are propaganda puppets -- one of the strongest images in the interview.
"A five-year-old child is not Hamas. Even if his father is Hamas, that child should not die, because it is not his fault that his father is Hamas."
An emotional and simple expression of the absurdity of collective responsibility in the Israeli-Palestinian conflict, showing Pająk's sensitivity.
"Success has enemies, everyone knows that. The more success you achieve, the more people hate you, because people like it when things go wrong for you, not when they go right."
A candid reflection on online hate -- Pająk does not pretend he does not care, but accepts it as an inseparable part of his career.
"I have never had a criminal record, I have never had any trouble with the law, and they are trying to turn me into, you know, some international criminal. Soon I will find out that I dealt in Medellín and smuggled tons into Poland."
Absurd accusations leveled against him by competitors, which he himself ironically exaggerates -- showing how easy slander can be.
"I consider myself a traveler who does not just go from country to country to sightsee, but I also like to conquer. I set myself the goal a long time ago: to climb Mount Everest."
A clear separation from 'checklist' tourism and an aspiration toward extreme challenges -- defines his identity.
"I would not destroy six years of my career for 30,000 zlotys. All the more, the best part is that I had absolutely nothing to do with that bar."
A concrete rebuttal of fraud accusations -- shows how much his reputation means to him and how absurd the allegations seem.

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