Motivational Interviewing for Addiction Recovery
When a person expresses a desire to quit an addictive behavior, a good clinician doesn't immediately affirm or direct them, but instead asks 'Why would you want to do that?' This approach, rooted in motivational interviewing, aims to help the individual articulate their own reasons for change. The therapist acts as a facilitator, guiding the person to elaborate on the benefits they envision from quitting (the 'carrots') and the negative consequences they want to avoid (the 'sticks'). For example, if someone wants to quit smoking, the therapist might ask about the positive feelings of having fresh-smelling clothes or what they would do with the money saved. This process helps build intrinsic motivation, which is crucial for sustaining effort through the difficult phases of withdrawal and long-term recovery. By focusing on the individual's values and desires, the therapist empowers them to own their recovery journey, making it more resilient against challenges.
So tell me why would you want what do you want to get out of this because it's work. I mean I'm happy to work with you but you know what is it? What are your what are your motives? And and sort of helping them build up you know in their own mind because again this is about them not you. What do you get? because this is going to be tough and maybe I want to do it today, but in three days I'm going to be in withdrawal and I'm going to feel like I want to go back and I need to think about wait a minute, you know, when I if a year without smoking I get, you know, that $2,000 trip to Cancun I've always wanted to take. Um, so I, you know, that helps that helps motivate them.

