Resolve conflicts privately over a drink, never through the media
Lato gives two powerful examples. After a disciplinary incident involving him and Szarmach, coach Jacek Gmoch kicked their door, holding a bottle of cognac and three glasses, and said, 'Boys, let's make peace.' No media, no press conference, just a direct gesture. Another time, coach Kazimierz Górski neutralized a player's outburst with a joke, sending everyone to bed laughing. Lato contrasts this with today's Polish team, where players 'say they don't like this or that, won't play with that one, and it ends up in the papers.' He insists that even if a player is upset, it must stay inside. 'I would tell [Lewandowski and the coach]: sit down together, have a beer, or even a glass of wine, talk it through, shake hands, and goodbye.' The key is to prevent the conflict from festering and being exploited by outsiders.
Lato was the direct beneficiary of Gmoch's cognac diplomacy and witnessed Górski's humorous defusing of a situation. He tells both stories in first person.
Someone knocks on the door, we look, Jacuś Gmoch enters, holding a bottle of cognac, three glasses, clink, clink, boys, let's make peace.

