Model healthy eating and set flexible boundaries for children
Wood draws on Sheryl Hughes' food parenting framework: set up a healthy environment, model good food behaviors, and set boundaries while staying responsive to the child's needs. She shares her own parenting missteps—using screen time as a reward, which she realized was counterproductive, and a story where her partner let their 3-year-old eat only candy for three dinners until she stepped in. She believes the early years are an enriched opportunity to share health values, and that even if we can't yet point to a definitive study, it's unethical not to try.
Modeling works because children's cognitive systems are designed to absorb and integrate observed behaviors. Setting boundaries supports the development of self-regulation, which is associated with lower BMI and better cognitive performance.
I talk to my kids a lot about why I eat a healthy diet and what it can do… My partner is very different… my daughter was three and he was like, 'Licky, your three-year-old has had candy for dinner for three nights straight.' And I was like, 'Yeah, that maybe we need to monitor a little bit too much self-regulation.'
Set up a healthy food environment. Model good food behaviors. Set boundaries for your children and and help them stay within those boundaries in a flexible and responsive way.

