Let players fail to learn instead of micromanaging
Leśnodorski frames this as a core part of his animator role. He describes how in a club full of high-ego individuals, constant top-down hammering is ineffective. Instead, he sometimes let a player publicly fail—for example, being benched or making a costly error—so that the player would self-reflect and adjust. He contrasts this with a purely authoritarian approach, which he believes kills the romantic spirit of sport. This method was applied to difficult characters like Daniel Luboić, though eventually Luboić had to be let go. The protocol depends on the leader’s intuition, which he defines as a mix of intelligence and experience, not guesswork.
Psychological reactance reduction: when the directive comes from within rather than being imposed, the ego aligns with the behavior. The social price of failure in a competitive group also serves as a natural deterrent.
He didn’t specify a single player, but mentioned that allowing someone to ‘crash’ was often more effective than constant discipline. He also noted that his own near-miss as a coach taught him the same lesson about himself.
sometimes you do it through example sometimes even through a negative example you let someone crash so that they reflect and pay that price

