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Dr. Jessica Shepherd: On Menopause, HRT, and Longevity Tips for Women | TUH #253
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Dr. Jessica Shepherd: On Menopause, HRT, and Longevity Tips for Women | TUH #253

Gary Brecka
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TL;DR

The four things you'd lose by not watching

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TL;DR

The four things you'd lose by not watching

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The FDA's removal of the black box warning on hormone therapy (HT) acknowledged that 50 million women suffered unnecessarily after the Women's Health Initiative (WHI) study was misquoted and sensationalized, restoring HT as a safe and effective option when started in the perimenopausal-to-early-menopause window (typically ages 45–55).

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Perimenopause can begin in the late 30s with subtle symptoms like brain fog, sleep disruption, and mood changes long before periods stop; listening to women's lived experience, rather than relying solely on lab values, is crucial for diagnosis and treatment.

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Creatine at 5 grams daily is not just for bodybuilders—it supports muscle retention, brain health, and cognitive function in women, with emerging data suggesting 10 grams for enhanced brain benefits.

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Heavy resistance training is a non-negotiable for longevity in women; it preserves lean muscle mass (which staves off frailty), improves glucose metabolism, and protects bone and brain health, especially after estrogen loss accelerates muscle decline.

Protocols

Concrete recipes — what, when, how much, and why

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Hormone Therapy: Optimal Timing and Initiation

WhatStart hormone therapy (estrogen, progesterone, possibly testosterone) during late perimenopause or within the first 5–10 years of menopause (age range ~45–55).
WhenLate perimenopause to early menopause (ideally before age 55). If periods are still occurring but irregular, or within a few years of final menstrual period.
DoseNot specified; individualized by a knowledgeable provider.
For whomPerimenopausal and early postmenopausal women without contraindications (e.g., history of estrogen-sensitive cancers, uncontrolled cardiovascular disease).
WhyMaximizes symptom relief and long-term protective effects (anti-inflammatory, brain health, bone density, glucose metabolism) while avoiding the cardiovascular risks seen when starting HT in older, postmenopausal women as in the WHI study.
CaveatsStarting after age 55 or more than 10 years post-menopause may still offer benefits, but the window of maximum benefit has passed because the body has already begun developing chronic inflammation and atherosclerosis. Not suitable for everyone; requires individual risk assessment.

Dr. Shepherd explains the concept of a 'good, better, best' window for HT. The WHI study used older women, many smokers, with pre-existing heart disease, leading to the false conclusion that HT increased cardiovascular risk. When started in the perimenopausal transition, estrogen exerts anti-inflammatory effects, maintains insulin sensitivity, and protects the brain, bones, and gut. She emphasizes that the goal is to 'capture women before they hit menopause to give them the best building blocks' so they remain optimized in their 60s, 70s, and 80s rather than experiencing a catastrophic decline. The recent FDA removal of the black box warning reinforces this timing strategy.

Mechanism

Estrogen is a potent anti-inflammatory hormone with receptors in the brain, muscle, bone, gut, and heart. During the perimenopausal transition, estrogen levels fluctuate and decline, triggering inflammatory pathways. Early HT restores estrogen signaling, reducing systemic inflammation, improving glucose regulation, preserving lean muscle mass, and protecting against bone loss. Progesterone balances endometrial safety, and testosterone supports libido and muscle.

Personal experience

Dr. Shepherd personally chose HT when she recognized her own perimenopausal brain fog. She describes immediate improvement in cognitive function and energy, mirroring the experiences she sees in patients. She also recounts her patient Gary Brecka's wife: '3 weeks almost to the day after my wife started hormone therapy, complete game changer.' Libido returned, sleep deepened, frozen shoulder resolved.

I am really trying to capture women before they hit menopause to give them the best building blocks so that at 60, 70, and 80, they are optimized instead of waiting for it to be a catastrophic fall off the cliff.

Also said
“Estrogen really is one of those robust hormones that is an anti-inflammatory, right? We know that inflammation is one of the main causes of disease.”— Links HT to the broader anti-aging, anti-inflammatory rationale.
“When estrogen is lost, we're not able to kind of get our lean muscle mass like we like. Our gut health, gut health is imperative... but also heart muscle and brain. So bones even.”— Highlights the multi-system impact of estrogen loss.

Heavy Resistance Training (Non-Negotiable)

WhatEngage in heavy weight training 3-5 times per week, 30-35 minutes per session, focusing on compound movements and progressive overload.
WhenIdeally in the morning to ensure consistency; can be done any time of day. Dr. Shepherd does morning workouts.
Dose30-35 minutes per session, heavy loads (not light dumbbells), progressing weight over time.
For whomAll women, especially perimenopausal and postmenopausal women. Beginners can start with lighter weights and gradually increase.
WhyPreserves and builds lean muscle mass, which is critical for glucose metabolism, bone density, brain health, and overall longevity, especially after estrogen decline accelerates muscle loss.
CaveatsProper form and gradual progression to avoid injury. The common fear of "bulking up" is unfounded; women do not have the hormonal profile to get bulky easily. Heavy weight is defined as challenging loads that stimulate muscle adaptation.

Dr. Shepherd emphasizes that muscle is 'metabolic currency' and a non-negotiable for female longevity. After menopause, the loss of estrogen compounds the natural age-related decline in muscle mass (sarcopenia), leading to frailty, insulin resistance, and increased risk of falls and fractures. Resistance training counteracts this by maintaining or increasing muscle mass, which acts as a glucose sponge, improves insulin sensitivity, and strengthens bones through mechanical load. She rejects the cultural notion that women should only use light weights, insisting that the body adapts to heavier loads and that building muscle does not make women bulky but instead functional and resilient. Even a brief, focused 30-minute session is sufficient if done consistently.

Mechanism

Skeletal muscle is a major site of glucose uptake; more muscle increases insulin sensitivity and metabolic rate. Resistance training stimulates muscle protein synthesis, mitochondrial biogenesis, and growth hormone release. Weight-bearing exercise also applies osteogenic stress, promoting bone formation (preventing osteoporosis). Additionally, muscle contraction releases myokines that have anti-inflammatory effects and support brain health (e.g., BDNF).

Personal experience

Dr. Shepherd shares: 'I am a person who if I don't get it in in the morning, typically my day is so busy I don't find time later. So, I self-care will go to the gym... I am the queen of a 30-35 minute workout because I'm focused, I'm intentional.' She used to be a runner but now prioritizes weight training.

In the toolbox of women's lives and health and longevity, it is a non-negotiable... Muscle is our currency of longevity because that's what not only fuels our body and allows it for strength, it really is kind of pushing against our glucose metabolism.

Also said
“Our bodies don't underestimate it. Your body is able to adapt to things. Granted, you want to do it safely and adjust it over time, but never think that you were just here as a woman to lose muscle and not build that muscle back. And if you're going to do it with light weight, that is not the category that we should be living in.”— Directly counters the myth of avoiding heavy weights.

Creatine Supplementation (5g daily)

WhatTake 5 grams of creatine monohydrate daily, with the option to increase to 10 grams for enhanced brain health benefits.
WhenDaily, at any time of day; consistency matters.
Dose5 grams daily. May start at 2g to assess tolerance, then move to 5g. For brain health, up to 10g.
For whomAll adults except those with severe, chronic kidney disease. Women especially benefit due to muscle preservation and brain fog relief.
WhySupports muscle energy and growth, and emerging research shows it crosses the blood-brain barrier to improve cognitive function, memory, and mental clarity.
CaveatsDo not confuse creatine with creatinine (a marker of kidney function). People with advanced chronic kidney disease should avoid or consult a physician. Some initial water retention may occur but is benign.

Dr. Shepherd dispels the common misconception that creatine is a bodybuilder-only supplement or that it harms the kidneys. She clarifies that creatine is an amino acid compound that helps regenerate ATP, the cellular energy currency, thereby improving muscle performance and recovery. Recent data show it also supports brain energy metabolism, which is particularly relevant for women experiencing brain fog during perimenopause and menopause. She recommends starting at 2g to gauge tolerance, then increasing to 5g, and notes that for brain health, studies suggest up to 10g may be more effective. She frames creatine as a foundational supplement that helps the body 'where it needs help.'

Mechanism

Creatine combines with phosphate to form phosphocreatine, which rapidly regenerates ATP during high-intensity activity. In muscle, this allows for greater work output and stimulates hypertrophy. In the brain, creatine stabilizes energy levels, supports neurotransmitter function, and may protect against neurodegeneration. Adequate creatine levels help maintain methylation processes, indirectly supporting overall cellular energy.

Personal experience

Dr. Shepherd states, 'I do take creatine and I think it's important that people understand what your body needs in order to have those optimal outcomes is it does need help.'

When we think of creatine in order to help muscle, right? I always think that amino acids and supplementation and proteins in order to help the muscle build, that's what you're going to find in creatine. And taking dosage, right? So five grams is where I like to sit every day... When we think of brain health now coming into data sets of seeing how it's impacting clarity, how it's impacting mental capacity... that's when we start to see taking maybe 10 grams and improving brain health.

Also said
“People confuse it with creatinine, which is kidney function. Um and so I like to dispel that first is that's something different. People who cannot or should not take creatine as a supplement or people who have really, really chronic kidney disease, okay? So outside of that... most people are completely fine.”— Addresses the safety myth head-on.

Morning Guided Meditation (10-15 min)

WhatPractice 10-15 minutes of guided meditation each morning, using an app like Calm, to quiet the mind and reduce stress.
WhenEvery morning, as part of a wake-up routine.
Dose10-15 minutes daily.
For whomAll individuals, especially women dealing with chronic stress, autoimmune conditions, or menopausal symptoms.
WhyMeditation regulates the sympathetic nervous system, lowers cortisol, and can decrease chronic disease progression; the mind tells the body what to do, so calming the mind reduces inflammation.
CaveatsIt is a skill that requires practice; guided meditations are helpful for beginners. Not a substitute for medical treatment but a complementary practice.

Dr. Shepherd links mind-body medicine directly to autoimmune disease management. She explains that the body is a vehicle for the mind, and chronic stress, unprocessed trauma, and emotional burden create a state of internal inflammation that can manifest as autoimmune conditions. By incorporating mindfulness, individuals can lower their stress response, improve immune regulation, and potentially slow disease progression. She cites Dr. Gabor Mate's work on trauma and disease. Even a short daily practice of 10 minutes can create significant shifts. She pairs this with saying 'hello to the sun' as a way to connect with nature and get morning light, which supports circadian rhythm.

Mechanism

Meditation decreases activity of the sympathetic nervous system and hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal axis, reducing cortisol. Lower cortisol levels dampen systemic inflammation and improve immune cell function. Over time, regular practice can alter brain structure (e.g., increased prefrontal cortex activity) and improve emotional regulation, which in turn reduces the inflammatory cascade linked to autoimmune flares.

Personal experience

Dr. Shepherd incorporates guided meditation every morning. 'Wake up and I definitely do mindfulness meditation... I do guided because I'm not an expert at meditation... I do 10 to 15 minutes... My kids now do it, too. They're like, "Good morning, sun."' She also greets the sun daily, which she considers a grounding practice.

When we think of mind-body medicine, it's really regulating the mind in order to kind of tell the body what to do. The body is just a vehicle of what is going on in the mind. So, if we can find a way to quiet the mind, there is a lot of data that shows that meditation in some form or mindfulness can actually help with disease process. Decreasing chronic progression of a disease.

Also said
“I'm a firm believer in some form of meditation. Because when you have mind-body, if we think about autoimmune in general, it is literally the body's cells attacking its own.”— Ties meditation directly to the autoimmune discussion.

Continuous Glucose Monitoring (CGM) for Personalized Nutrition

WhatWear a continuous glucose monitor for 2 weeks to observe real-time glucose responses to different foods, exercise, and stressors, then adjust diet and lifestyle accordingly.
WhenPeriodically, for at least 2 weeks to capture a range of activities and meals.
Dose2 weeks (can be longer but watch for data paralysis).
For whomAnyone, especially those with prediabetic concerns, menopausal women (who are at increased insulin resistance risk), and individuals wanting to optimize metabolic health.
WhyProvides personalized feedback on how your unique body handles specific foods and activities, helping to avoid insulin resistance and tailor a low-glycemic, anti-inflammatory diet.
CaveatsCan lead to information overload and anxiety; Dr. Shepherd recommends a focused 2-week period. Not a substitute for fasting glucose and A1c but a complement.

Dr. Shepherd explains that a single fasting glucose is just a snapshot, while a hemoglobin A1c gives a 3-month average, but a CGM shows the dynamic patterns—how a meal, a walk, or a cold plunge affects glucose in real time. This empowers users to make immediate changes, such as pairing carbohydrates with protein or walking after meals. She shares an anecdote of seeing her own glucose drop after a cold plunge, demonstrating the power of hormetic stressors. She also points out that ethnic differences in glucose metabolism (e.g., rice) can be visualized with CGM, making it a tool for truly personalized nutrition.

Mechanism

Continuous glucose monitors measure interstitial glucose levels every few minutes, revealing post-prandial spikes and drops. Avoiding large glucose excursions reduces insulin secretion and glycation, lowering inflammation and risk of metabolic syndrome. The data helps identify optimal food choices and meal timing to maintain stable blood sugar, which is critical for brain energy and hormone balance.

Personal experience

Dr. Shepherd wore a CGM for 2 weeks: 'I had a CGM on and I did a cold plunge. And it went down within it brought my glucose down significantly after doing a cold plunge.' She was fascinated by the data and uses it with patients.

I really like a CGM... the reason why that's important is because you and I will have different responses cuz of gender, but also maybe movement, maybe lifestyle of how we utilize glucose... Foods also in response to how our bodies do that is quite different as well.

Also said
“So, imagine if we know, yes, your body was responding to that stressor in the best way possible. So, imagine we had that data in order to know not only the food that I'm intaking, but maybe if I take that 10-minute walk after I eat a big meal. What if I'm able to do sauna and cold plunge every day? What is that going to do to my glucose?”— Shows the broad lifestyle insights CGM can provide.

Lab Panel for Midlife Women

WhatRun a panel including estrogen, progesterone, FSH, cortisol, thyroid panel, and vitamin D. Consider the DUTCH test (dried urine) for detailed hormone metabolites.
WhenWhen perimenopausal symptoms arise, or as a baseline in the late 30s–40s.
DoseOne-time draw or periodic monitoring; DUTCH test is a single collection.
For whomWomen experiencing fatigue, brain fog, irregular cycles, mood changes, or hot flashes.
WhyEstablish baseline levels and identify other contributing deficiencies (thyroid, adrenal, vitamin D) that may mimic or worsen menopausal symptoms.
CaveatsLabs may appear normal despite symptoms, especially in early perimenopause; results should be interpreted alongside clinical symptoms. DUTCH test provides more nuanced metabolite data but is not standard of care—use as adjunct.

Dr. Shepherd acknowledges the limitation of standard labs: they measure what's in the blood at one moment, but perimenopause is characterized by erratic fluctuations. She recommends a broad panel to rule out other issues like hypothyroidism or low vitamin D, which can produce similar symptoms. The DUTCH test is useful for tracking how hormones are being metabolized and for understanding adrenal function. She emphasizes that labs are a 'starting ground for a conversation,' not a definitive diagnosis. The key is to combine objective data with the patient's subjective experience.

Testing is a little tricky because again, the estrogen and progesterone are still there if you have a cycle... So, the goal is in testing is not necessarily to tell you, 'Am I perimenopausal?' It's a good starting ground for a conversation... I still think you're worthy of hormone therapy. If that's what you choose, this is where we're going to start.

Also said
“But also things like cortisol, thyroid, also your vitamin D, cuz now you're going to start to see deficiencies in other parts of your body because you're going through this transition.”— Rationale for broader panel.

Anti-Inflammatory Whole Foods Diet with Adequate Protein

WhatPrioritize whole, unprocessed foods (rainbow of vegetables), adequate protein at every meal, fiber, and minimize high-glycemic carbohydrates. Start the morning with protein, not high-glycemic foods.
WhenDaily, as a permanent dietary shift.
DoseOngoing; aim for at least 1.2–1.6 g/kg protein, 25–35 g fiber.
For whomAll women, particularly those in midlife or with autoimmune conditions.
WhyReduces inflammation, heals gut permeability, supports muscle mass, and stabilizes blood sugar, all of which are compromised during menopause.
CaveatsTransition gradually; monitor gut response. Individualize based on food sensitivities.

Dr. Shepherd connects diet directly to gut health, noting that the gut has estrogen receptors and that declining estrogen increases gut permeability ('leaky gut'). A high-fiber, whole foods diet supports a healthy microbiome and reduces systemic inflammation. She stresses protein's role in maintaining muscle and brain health, and criticizes the lack of education on adequate protein intake for women. She often has patients keep a 2-week food log without judgment to identify pro-inflammatory patterns. Morning protein helps lower cortisol and prevents blood sugar spikes that can set off a cascade of cravings and energy crashes.

Mechanism

Dietary fiber feeds beneficial gut bacteria, producing short-chain fatty acids that strengthen the gut barrier. Adequate protein stimulates muscle protein synthesis and provides amino acids for neurotransmitter production. Low-glycemic meals prevent excess insulin release, which is anti-inflammatory and protects against insulin resistance. A healthy gut reduces the translocation of inflammatory endotoxins, dampening systemic inflammation.

Personal experience

Dr. Shepherd challenges her patients with a 2-week food log: 'I'm like, "Just give me 2 weeks of what you're eating. Don't try and eat the healthiest thing... Just give me raw data. I just need to know what's going on."'

The best way to get your vitamins and your nutrients is through your whole foods, what you consume. Great. But we usually are lower than we should be. So, I would say... most women will have a deficiency in vitamin D, in vitamin B12, and fiber and protein are the other two that I feel need to be kind of heightened.

Also said
“The gut also has estrogen receptors. And so, the ability for the gut to have less permeability, rather than more, which is what happens with aging alone, but also with estrogen decline, we do see that the gut takes a very big hit.”— Explains why gut health and diet are crucial in menopause.

What's new

Personal practice updates, fresh positions, predictions

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Shifting from disease management to root-cause and lifestyle medicine

After 15 years as a high-volume minimally invasive gynecologic surgeon, Dr. Shepherd had a pivotal moment where she realized that the underlying story—nutrition, exercise, stress, emotional health—was driving the chronic diseases she was treating. She pivoted to root-cause medicine, focusing on lifestyle and patient education.

Why this matters: A board-certified OBGYN and surgeon openly describing her transition away from the standard disease-focused model, which she found insufficient, towards preventive and root-cause medicine.

Background

Dr. Shepherd earned an undergraduate degree in kinesiology/exercise physiology before medical school, giving her early exposure to what the body can do when optimized. Her medical training focused on managing illness and disease, but she began to see a pattern: every patient had a background story of poor nutrition, high stress, or emotional trauma that contributed to their disease.

In her practice, she saw women presenting with complex conditions that were treated surgically or with medication, but she felt something was missing. She realized that the healthcare system is designed to fix 'train wrecks' but rarely addresses the foundational lifestyle factors that lead to disease. This led her to seek out training in root-cause analysis, emphasizing nutrition, stress management, and emotional health. She now combines her surgical skill with proactive lifestyle medicine, aiming to prevent women from needing surgery or managing chronic disease.

Personal experience

Dr. Shepherd recalls: 'There are really pivotal moments in your life where everyone gets a choice... My background, little behind the scenes about me, is I got my undergraduate degree in kinesiology exercise physiology. So, I really understood what the body could do, what it could adapt to when it's optimized.' She describes 15 years of operating and seeing the worst, then realizing 'the story behind the scenes of all these women... I knew deep down, I was like, there's something else going on.' That something else was 'all the behind the scenes things that allow people to show up with disease, whether that's with nutrition, exercise, stress, emotional issues.'

I had to do something different, and that's when I ventured more into looking at root cause, looking at lifestyle, being able to actually educate while empowering women about their life especially in midlife.

Also said
“We do need that side, um, to society. So, now practicing 15 years of seeing the worst and fixing disease and operating... But, what I really started to understand is the story.”— Reinforces that her shift was born from extensive frontline experience.

Diagnosing perimenopause by symptoms, not just labs

Dr. Shepherd advocates for prioritizing women's subjective symptoms—brain fog, sleep changes, mood swings, libido loss—over bloodwork, because labs often remain 'normal' while receptor-level estrogen changes cause real symptoms. She says the medical community has ignored the experiential component of perimenopause.

Why this matters: A direct challenge to the standard medical approach that ties diagnosis to lab values. She gives a mechanistic explanation: hormone receptors in target tissues can react to fluxing hormones even when serum levels appear adequate.

Background

Traditionally, doctors rely on blood tests for estradiol, progesterone, and FSH to diagnose menopause. Women in perimenopause often have normal labs because they still have cycles, leading to dismissal of their complaints. Dr. Shepherd notes that many patients are told 'you're fine' based on numbers alone.

She explains that perimenopause is a process lasting years, where estrogen and progesterone fluctuate unpredictably, causing symptoms long before periods stop. Because the receptors for these hormones are widespread—in the brain, muscle, skin, gut—the symptoms can be diverse and severe. Labs provide a snapshot, but the body is experiencing a dynamic decline. She emphasizes that listening to the patient's narrative is more important than the lab printout, and that this empathetic approach is a missing piece in modern medicine. By validating women's experiences, clinicians can intervene earlier with hormone therapy or lifestyle adjustments.

Personal experience

Dr. Shepherd shares her own perimenopausal journey: 'My first symptom was that brain fog, that executive functioning, clarity, memory. And it took me roughly about 6 months to put the pieces together.' Despite being a menopause expert, she initially dismissed her symptoms due to stress until she realized they aligned with perimenopause.

We have not kind of brought the experiential part of perimenopause onto the actual fundamental science behind it. And that's where we are now is being willing to hear women when they say, 'I feel A, B, C, D.' May not show up in a lab as a hormone malfunction or dysfunction. It actually is experientially what the receptors to the hormones are experiencing, which gives them the symptom. So, we just have to listen more.

Also said
“I, you know, classically trained as a physician, that's what we were taught is we're really looking for abnormalities... When really, what we should be looking at is the human body as it transitions... even in the moment of it looks within normal range, how are you feeling?”— Highlights the mindset shift from pathology to function.

Correcting the misinformation from the WHI study and black box warning

Dr. Shepherd details how the Women's Health Initiative study was misapplied to all women, leading to an FDA black box warning that terrified an entire generation away from hormone therapy. She notes the recent FDA reversal and estimates that 50 million women suffered unnecessarily.

Why this matters: She is among the experts helping to destigmatize hormone therapy and explaining the flawed study design—the WHI used older women, many of whom were smokers or had pre-existing heart disease, leading to misleading conclusions about cardiovascular risk.

Background

The WHI study in 2002 was designed to assess cardiovascular benefit of HT, but it enrolled women aged 50–79, many years past menopause, with significant baseline risk factors. The media sensationalized a small increase in breast cancer risk, ignoring the study's limitations. This led to a black box warning and a drastic drop in HT prescriptions. In late 2024, the FDA removed the black box warning, acknowledging the misinterpretation.

Dr. Shepherd explains that the study's participants were not the ideal candidates for starting hormone therapy—experts now recommend beginning in the perimenopausal transition or early menopause (45–55) to maximize benefits and minimize risks. The black box warning caused a 70-80% reduction in HT use, leaving millions of women to endure severe menopausal symptoms and lose the long-term protective effects of estrogen on bone, brain, and heart. The reversal opens the door for a new conversation, but many doctors and patients remain uninformed or fearful. She emphasizes the need to educate both physicians and the public about the real risk-benefit profile.

The FDA removed the black box warning from female hormone therapy... 50 million women have unnecessarily suffered because this study was misquoted and the mainstream media loves controversy, sensationalizing.

Also said
“So, when the WHI, you know, kind of came out with this kind of catastrophic message, it really did one misalign what providers thought, you know, we do no harm. And if we're thinking, 'Oh my goodness, I gave something that may be of substantial harm to a patient.' The first thing we'll do is saying, 'I'm not doing that anymore.'”— Explains the physician's perspective and why so many stopped prescribing.
“Those are the conversations that we really should have focused on when looking at the benefit of hormone therapy... what does it do for preventing chronic disease? What does it do for brain health or bone health later on in life?”— Shifts focus from fear to long-term preventive benefits.

Reframing menopause as Generation M: a comedic love story

Through her book 'Generation M' and the Modern Meno community, Dr. Shepherd is changing the cultural narrative around menopause from a dread-filled horror story to an empowering, even humorous, transition—a love letter to oneself.

Why this matters: She directly targets the pervasive negative framing of menopause, offering a tangible resource and community to shift women's perception and experience from fear to self-care and vitality.

Background

Menopause has long been stigmatized as a decline, associated with hot flashes, mood swings, and loss of femininity. Dr. Shepherd noticed that women often approach midlife with dread, which exacerbates stress and symptoms.

Her book 'Generation M' (released in 2024) covers sex, muscle, brain, meditation, and hormones, but it's not solely about hormone therapy—it's a framework for lifestyle pillars. She describes it as a love letter to her patients and friends, filled with relatable stories. By calling it a 'comedic love story,' she aims to reduce the fear and isolation many feel. She also created the Modern Meno community to provide ongoing support, webinars, and peer connection, recognizing that women thrive when they share experiences.

Personal experience

Dr. Shepherd says, 'Generation M was really a love letter. I didn't know there was Generation M, by the way... But it really was a love letter from me to my patients, myself, my friends who were going through this.'

We have really cast menopause into this light of dread. And a horror story. And I said, 'What better way is to change the script and the narrative into something where someone like, I'm going to This is a comedic love story rather than a horror movie.'

Also said
“I'm going to fall back in love with myself and there may be some funny moments along the way.”— Reinforces the positive, self-accepting reframe.

Recommendations

Products, supplements, and tools mentioned in the episode

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Creatine

Supplement

Dr. Shepherd recommends 5 grams daily for muscle and brain health, up to 10g for enhanced cognitive benefit, except for those with severe chronic kidney disease.

She highlights that creatine is often misunderstood and confused with creatinine (a kidney function marker). She stresses its safety and benefits beyond muscle, citing new research on brain health, mental clarity, and memory. She notes that women especially need help preserving muscle and brain function during hormonal shifts.

Personal experience

Dr. Shepherd takes creatine daily.

When we think of creatine in order to help muscle... And taking dosage, right? So five grams is where I like to sit every day... When we think of brain health now coming into data sets of seeing how it's impacting clarity... that's when we start to see taking maybe 10 grams and improving brain health.

Also said
“People confuse it with creatinine, which is kidney function. Um and so I like to dispel that first is that's something different. People who cannot or should not take creatine as a supplement or people who have really, really chronic kidney disease, okay?”— Clears up a common safety myth.
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Vitamin D

Supplement

Dr. Shepherd notes that most women she sees are deficient in vitamin D, and it should be monitored and supplemented as needed.

Most women will have a deficiency in vitamin D.

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Vitamin B12

Supplement

Along with vitamin D, B12 deficiency is common in her patients and should be addressed.

Most women will have a deficiency in... vitamin B12.

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Continuous Glucose Monitor (CGM)

Tool

She recommends wearing a CGM for two weeks to understand individual glucose responses and personalize diet and lifestyle.

Dr. Shepherd explains that CGM data can show the impact of specific foods, exercise (like a post-meal walk), and stress (cold plunges) on blood sugar, making it a powerful educational tool to prevent insulin resistance and tailor nutrition.

vs alternatives

Compared to a single fasting glucose or A1c, CGM provides dynamic, real-time patterns.

Personal experience

She wore one for 2 weeks and observed her glucose drop after a cold plunge.

I really like a CGM. Continuous glucose monitor. And the reason why that's important is because you and I will have different responses cuz of gender, but also maybe movement, maybe lifestyle of how we utilize glucose.

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DUTCH Test (Dried Urine Test for Comprehensive Hormones)

Tool

Dr. Shepherd finds the DUTCH test valuable for assessing hormone metabolites and understanding the full picture of estrogen and progesterone breakdown.

She notes that while standard serum labs are a starting point, the DUTCH test provides deeper insight into how hormones are being processed and their downstream effects, which can map directly to symptoms.

vs alternatives

Compared to blood tests, DUTCH offers metabolite data and a more functional assessment.

Now the Dutch test, I think is good for looking at metabolites or variations of your estradiol and your progesterone and what they're actually doing, right? It's a good follow through to see exactly where the peaks are, where it's maybe going down a little bit.

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Calm (Meditation App)

Tool

Dr. Shepherd uses the Calm app for guided meditations as part of her daily morning routine.

She recommends finding a meditation app or instructor that works for the individual; Calm is the one she personally uses. She does 10-15 minutes of guided meditation each morning.

Personal experience

Dr. Shepherd says, 'Calm is a good app that I use. I have kind of a meditation, I guess you could say, instructor. So, I use those guided meditations.'

Calm is a good app that I use.

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Generation M: Living Well in Menopause and Beyond

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Her book, published in 2024, is a guide to navigating perimenopause and menopause through lifestyle pillars—nutrition, exercise, sex, brain health, meditation—and hormone therapy, reframing the experience as empowering rather than dreadful.

DisclosureDr. Shepherd is the author.

She describes it as a 'love letter' to her patients and friends, filled with relatable stories. It aims to change the narrative from a horror story to a comedic love story, helping women fall back in love with themselves. The book covers libido, muscle, brain health, meditation, and HRT.

Generation M was really a love letter... from me to my patients, myself, my friends who were going through this.

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Modern Meno Community

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A global community and platform where women can find peer support, webinars, and information on menopause, perimenopause, and midlife health, bridging the gap for women who lack access or feel isolated.

DisclosureDr. Shepherd is the founder.

She created Modern Meno after the success of her book to provide a space where women can ask questions they might be embarrassed to ask elsewhere, learn from others' stories, and access her expertise. The name drops the 'pause' to modernize the conversation. She emphasizes that community is vital for women's health, citing blue zone research on connection and purpose.

Modern meno is the community that I developed that women can come in and learn from other women. Hearing other people's stories makes you feel like you're not alone... the main goal through modern meno is to say, 'What can I do for myself that I can inch into it or I can get the information that I need or if I feel embarrassed to ask a question, how can I ask the question?'

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Notable quotes

Lines worth pulling out — contrarian, specific, or perfectly phrased

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We've always idealized medicine as direction in order to give someone what they need to do in order to be their best health. So, why is it that we have the best of research and the best of resources and we're not applying it in the way that people can actually live longer and live well?
Poses a fundamental challenge to the medical system's failure to translate research into longevity.
We have not kind of brought the experiential part of perimenopause onto the actual fundamental science behind it. And that's where we are now is being willing to hear women when they say, 'I feel A, B, C, D.' May not show up in a lab as a hormone malfunction or dysfunction. It actually is experientially what the receptors to the hormones are experiencing, which gives them the symptom. So, we just have to listen more.
Articulates the core disconnect between lab tests and patient experience, advocating for a symptom-first approach.
I am really trying to capture women before they hit menopause to give them the best building blocks so that at 60, 70, and 80, they are optimized instead of waiting for it to be a catastrophic fall off the cliff.
Powerful visual of proactive vs reactive health, encapsulating her preventive philosophy.
Estrogen really is one of those robust hormones that is an anti-inflammatory, right? We know that inflammation is one of the main causes of disease.
Succinctly links estrogen's protective role to the root of chronic disease, making the case for HRT beyond symptom relief.
Muscle is our currency of longevity because that's what not only fuels our body and allows it for strength, it really is kind of pushing against our glucose metabolism.
Memorable metaphor for the metabolic and structural importance of muscle, especially for women.
We have really cast menopause into this light of dread. And a horror story. And I said, 'What better way is to change the script and the narrative into something where someone like, I'm going to This is a comedic love story rather than a horror movie.'
Highlights her mission to reframe menopause culturally and emotionally, a key theme of her work.

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